The Joyful Widower

Ruminations on grief, joy, love, and the cross


Blog Posts

  • Marriage, Being Widowed, and the Cross

    “I didn’t sign up for this.” You may not have read the fine print, but yes, yes, you did. Years ago, when Melinda and I were doing pre-marital counseling with Fr. Stephen Freeman, he pointed out to us the hard truth that most people don’t (or don’t want to) think about when they are planning…

  • Preview of Coming Attractions: Marriage, Widowerhood, Remarriage, Widowerhood Remix, and the Cross

    And I, brethren, when I came to you, came not with excellency of speech or of wisdom, declaring unto you the testimony of God. For I determined not to know any thing among you, save Jesus Christ, and him crucified. And I was with you in weakness, and in fear, and in much trembling. I Corinthians…

  • Hello, World!

    My name is Jim Tilson. Who am I? My personal brain care specialist says “vell, Jim Tilson is just zis guy, you know?”1 “Zis guy” is also a widower twice-over, doing my best to raise my teenagers in a loving home and to live the hope of Christ’s resurrection. I’m also a software developer by…